4.10.2012

tangled.

i received a couple of phone calls notifying me that a long time friend had passed away. he was only in his thirties. i won't get into the details, but just want to say...if you feel tangled up in any way, overwhelmed by your feelings or life in general, talk to someone. anyone. and if you know someone who seems tangled in their emotions, be a friend. be there for them. listen to them.

i retired this chain necklace a while ago because a couple of the chains were broken. the whole thing is a tangled mess, and i haven't had the patience to untangle it. well, after fussing with it for a bit, i decided that i like it better this way.
i even tangled a few more of the chains. rebel.

(house of harlow clear antler ring via gilt)
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love the ring, but it actually arrived with a big crack
in the stone. it may have to go back.
i have no idea what this is, but it's so delicious...chocolate chips sandwiched between a chocolate crust and a citrusy layer.
(dress, old navy (similar)(skirt))

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58 comments:

  1. I'm sorry to hear about your friend, so easy to get caught up in things and not be there at time, so true to just be there. You look beautiful. It's been awhile but i wanted to say thank you for reaching out awhile back, things got crazy and needed a blogging break, but it meant a lot that you took the time to check in. You are a gem.

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  2. I completely can relate to your story =( it only gets better with time. Thats the only bit of advice I can give after going through a very similar situation!

    You look beautiful as usual!
    xo Jackie
    ...livingaftermidnite
    Enter to win a Rebecca Minkoff mark. Delight Bag!!

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  3. Becks, I'm so sorry about your friend. It's sad when it happens, and we have to keep reminding ourselves and our loved ones that things will get better if we just reach out.

    I love your outfit! That maxi is just so gorgeous.

    ♥ laura
    the blog of worldly delights
    the shop of worldly delights

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  4. I'm sorry to hear about your friend, I've had friends go through what I'm assuming is a similar situation and it is so heartbreaking. My thoughts are with the family and others like him. On a fashion note, that dress is fantastic and I want it now!

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  5. I'm sorry to hear about your loss. On a shallower note, your photos are gorgeous.

    Jenn
    The Suburb Experiment

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  6. I'm really sorry to hear about your friend Oomph. That has to be so hard. If you need anything, don't hesitate to email! Pretty dress. Again, I am sorry for your loss.

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  7. I'm sorry about your friend's passing. Stay strong!

    About your necklace, I feel like I'm already a professional necklace chain untangler!

    xo,
    janmloves.blogspot.com

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  8. Gorgeous Maxi! I love the print!

    www.mythriftychic.com

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  9. So sorry to hear about your friend.

    On a fashion note... I love your dress :)

    Love, Rachel

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  10. awww... sorry to hear about your friend.

    I like your dress :) It's summer here in our country! :) Good inspiration.

    Jewel Clicks

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  11. I'm sorry for your loss, Becks. I wish your friend peace.

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  12. Your dress is amazing!

    Sorry for your loss :(

    xx Romy

    http://stories-of-a-student.blogspot.com/

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  13. Fabulous Maxi & amazing pictures! You look awesome. Loved that outfit color!

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  14. I'm so sorry to hear about your friend! It's never easy to hear such news.
    You look really pretty in this dress. And I love your hairstyle here.

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  15. SO sorry to hear about your friend. When I was in high school, a similar thing happened, and it is just incomprehensible and guilt-inducing and terrible. Peace to you, my friend. You look gorgeous in that dress. Love the jewelry, and your hair is magnificent!

    Hugs,
    Shannan

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  16. So sorry to hear about your friend

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  17. I am so sorry to hear about your friend.

    amazing dress!
    btw, HERE is the website for my blouse that you liked.
    Take a look :)

    Pinkbow Icecream

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  18. lovely dress!
    very sorry to hear about your friend.

    Lyosha
    Inside and Outside Blog

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  19. Sorry to hear of your friend's passing.

    I can't tell you how many necklaces are hidden away because they are one tangled mess...I guess I should start to unravel them since the weather's getting warmer...we'll see.

    LOVE the dress and the idea to keep the necklaces tangles. Mine are litteraly one big ball of chains so I can't even do that :(


    www.plentyforpennies.blogspot.com

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  20. sorry to hear of your loss. Huge hugs. xxx

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  21. I'm sorry about the loss of your friend. It's always exceptionally sad when we lose people near our age.

    That dress is simply gorgeous. And as usual, I love your accessories!

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  22. Sorry to hear that about your friend.

    Your dress is very pretty, I love that color of blue.

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  23. so sorry about this. love your dress, it really suits you. xx
    Alice Barton ♥ TheMowWay

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  24. I am really sorry about what happened to your friend...:(

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  25. amazing look! i love your long dress! :) and i love your tangled necklace :)

    i am really sorry about your friend x

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  26. i love this maxi dress. so perfect for spring and summer!

    -k

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  27. Becks, I am so sorry to hear about your friend. I have lost so many people my age. We all need to take time and be there for a person. It's important to reach out. Love your dress and LOL that tangled necklace looks GOOD! You can rock anything girl. So pretty. Sorry I've been mia. Feeling bad. But you know i always catch up. (HUG)
    http://www.averysweetblog.com/

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  28. hermoso vestido perfecto para esta primavera

    http://dancingwithtearsgf.blogspot.com

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  29. i'm so sorry to hear about your friend. it does help to talk things out, especially if you're feeling unsure about things in your life. i hope that his family can find peace through this difficult time.

    love the maxi! it makes you look really tall!

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  30. So sorry to hear of your loss. That's awful.
    You look so pretty in the dress though...love the color on you friend.

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  31. I am so sorry to hear about your friend. It is definitely important for people to feel that they have someone to talk to when things get rough. Life is so unpredictable. On a lighter note, your dress is gorgeous and you look so pretty:-)

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  32. i love the dress and you always amaze me with your accessories! and yes, you have to check out target for their skinnies! but i know stuff is more pricey over there (at least that's what my sis says). but you're the one who always inspires me to wear leopard! i still remember seeing you wear an awesome outfit that consisted of leopard and red!!!

    http://spinning-threads.blogspot.com

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  33. BTW, so sorry to hear about your friend.

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  34. Beautiful dress.... so sorry to hear about your friend. :(

    GTBB,
    Bad Joan
    http://badjoan.blogspot.com

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  35. Sorry to hear about your friend. It's always so hard and sad

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  36. Really sorry about your friend..just know that he is in a better place <3 btw really gorgeous dress it looks amazing on you (:

    xoxo,
    Cindy C.
    http://styleologie.blogspot.com/

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  37. An old friend of mine passed away recently as well, conceding to a brain tumour at the age of 23. :( It was so devastating for me so I completely, wholeheartedly know how you must feel. I hope your heart is full of fond memories for your friend and that you cherish all the times you had together. I didn't have the chance to say goodbye to mine but I hope you had the opportunity to say yours. :)

    On a brighter note, you look absolutely stunning! The floral maxi is just the most perfect length and colour and I imagine it would be perfect for those beautifully sunny days when you just want to slip on something with absolute ease and still look effortlessly gorgeous!

    Thank you for your sweet comment! :) I love your blog and am following you now!

    Hope you'll come and pop by again. :)

    <3 Mandy xx
    http://frocksandotherfrivolities.blogspot.com

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    1. sorry you had to experience that with your friend...so young.

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  38. I'm so sorry about you friend!
    Thank you so much for your lovely comment!

    Lischen
    xxx

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  39. sorry to hear about your friend. I know it takes time to heal. on the lighter note, you look beautiful in that maxi dress, I love it!

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  40. Gorgeous maxi dress, that print & colour looks great on you. Lovely necklace too!


    Satu
    Indie by Heart

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  41. Sorry to hear about your friend, my condolences.

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  42. I am sorry about your friend. Also, I love your dress.

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  44. Very sorry to hear about your friend hun, but that is definitely good advice, I know I had a friend who passed and it takes time but talking to someone helped.

    I love this blue maxi print it radiates spring, and looks lovely on you. -xo

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  45. I'm so sorry to hear about your friend...that is good advice though, I know it can make a world of difference in someone's life.

    This maxi is divine on you, so long and column like you look like a goddess of spring :)

    <3 Cambria
    jupefashion.blogspot.com

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  46. I'm not sure what I love most...the necklace or the BEAUTIFUL maxi dress!

    Thanks for checking out my latest post :) If you continue to like my content, I'd love for you to follow--but please, by no means feel obligated.

    Your picture composition is stunning! Very inspirational!

    Rebecca
    www.twenty-somethingme.blogspot.com

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  47. I am sorry to hear about your friend. That kind of news is never fun getting.

    On a happier note—if it's even appropriate—I love your rebel-ism! The chains look good all messed up together.

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  48. I'm so sorry to hear about your friend, that is s hard to deal with. Way too young. I get so frustruated when people won't talk to other's about how they're feeling and try to deal with it on their own and bottle it up. It doesn't work, I gaurentee you feel better after talking to someone!!
    I love this dress, you look so very gorgeous and your chains are awesome!

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  49. I'm so sorry to hear about the sad news, so horrible. You look stunning in this dress and I think I've just decided to revisit some of my tangled chain necklaces.

    x
    Rachel

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  50. I'm so sorry to hear about your friend. What you said is true.

    Love the dress and your makeup is gorgeous!

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